8 Reasons Your Husband Isn’t Having Sex With You

8 Reasons Your Husband Isn't Having Sex With You

Your husband mercilessly shows no interest in having sex with you. You terribly hate him, causing chaos in your home. You are angry and hurt.

Anyone will understand where you’re coming from. But do not allow your emotion control your decisions. First thing first. What is the reason why your husband decided not to have sex with you? Here are eight possible reasons:

  1. Lack of intimacy from you.

More often than not, you are the culprit why your husband is losing interest in sex. You forgot to show him your affection every day. A good morning kiss or a hug before leaving for work is important to keep the fire burning.

Raphael Darvish, MD, MBA, a Los Angeles-based physician insisted that men lose their libido rarely because of medical issues but mostly because of their wives.  To avoid that, kiss, back rub or hug your husband spontaneously. These acts will make a huge difference.

  1. Too much porn.

Pornography addiction can be devastating to a marriage.  Psychologist Les Parrott, Ph.D. says that once a man depends on porn to become stimulated, he’ll start ignoring his spouse. What’s more alarming here is, tons of studies proved that pornography promotes unrealistic expectations the way should be like.

If you think you’re husband suffer from this condition, help him recognize the problem and do something to recover.

  1. Performance anxiety.

Having sex significantly depends on his ability to have an erection. It puts a lot of pressure on the Adonis clan. On top of that, previous bad sexual encounters can turn him off as well.  So, if you notice that this is the case, talk to him. Ask him to please you through manual stimulation, oral sex or anything else he never tried before.  This may excite him and arouse him.

  1. Financial or work-related stress.

His financial and work worries may also interfere with his libido temporarily. We can’t control this but you can let him feel valued to enhance his self-esteem in every aspect. It will help a lot if you stay beside him as his #1 cheerleader and sounding board to comfort him.

  1. Unknown health conditions.

Low sex drive doesn’t just indicate bedroom issues for men. It could be a sign that there’s an underlying health problem such as heart disease, prostate cancer or diabetes. Schedule an appointment with your doctor to know the truth.

  1. He is too tired.

Admit it or not, if you ask your husband to choose between making out with you and sleeping after a strenuous day job, he’ll go for sleeping. When this happens, you can always opt for morning sex or quickies. Be a caring and understanding wife.

  1. Allergies.

Cleveland Clinic recently released a report that sneezing can affect your sex life.  Approximately 83% of individuals who suffers from these allergies experience decline in sexual satisfaction.

 If you don’t want topsoil your next honeymoon travel, ask your doctor for the right medication.

  1. Male menopause.

Also known as andropause, menopause is a typical event for aging men. Jeanne O’Connell, the co-founder and medical director of Sylvana Institute of Medical Aesthetics and, it involves reduction in sex drive. 

Don’t feel confused and hurt. You and your husband need just to talk things out to overcome the trials in your sex life.

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